Conflict and Resolution

We all sometimes get problems especially with our friends so I thought i'd write about my story and how I solved my problems, but these tips might not work for all of us and i'm not forcing you to, so use the ones that you are comfortable with and that you think might help you.

Yes i have had very big quarells,arguments or even sometimes fights (verbally) but in the we were always the best of friends here are some things that you can do to solve some of your problems remember some of these might not work for you so find the ones that do.

Always tell a parent,teacher or bigger sibling to help you and dont't do what I did because I didn't tell an adult and believe me, it doesn't work it actually makes things worse.

Never keep it all to yourself and go home crying because i've done that and it doesn't help.Even if you can't get to an adult you should stand up for yourself and not be scared  to tell someone because the problem can get very nasty.

Tell your parents if you can go somewhere that makes you feel happy,loved and comortable, like for me it's my grandma's house.

Apoligies

yes I know that sounds a little 'babyish' but sometimes it really does help and if that dosen't work

like I said tell a teacher.

So remember if you ever see anyone getting bullied or find yourself in a problem like that then try some of these tips to calm down or resolve the problem by telling and adult or going to your favorite place.Also don't forget that you can always be brave and never be scared to tell someone.                 

Remember don't ever give up!

-Maisha Begum